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Describe resistance before naming it
Consider initial response, support in the middle register and behaviour through dynamic changes separately. 'Hard' or 'soft' alone rarely gives enough information.
- Is the attack delayed or too immediate?
- Does the sound stay stable at piano?
- Does the upper register demand excess pressure?
- Does the embouchure tire unnecessarily in long rehearsals?
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A practical starting matrix
Beginners and players facing long rehearsals may begin the conversation with Soft; those seeking a versatile baseline with Medium; experienced players wanting firmer support with Hard. This is a communication shortcut, not a rule.
03
What to put in the request
Name two things you like about your current reed and two you would change. Add the instrument model, staple dimensions and playing context. Comparisons such as 'darker but with an easy attack' are useful.

